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KIDS 6–12

HOUSEHOLD JOBS / KIDS AGED 6–12

Chores for kids by age,
with room for your own child.

A list of chores by age is a starting menu, not a grade sheet. Pick one job your child can manage today, do it side by side first, and add another only once the first feels routine.

Practical chores for kids by age begin with small daily tasks and expand into full household zones across elementary school. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, children aged 5 to 7 can often make their bed, set and clear the table, and put dirty clothes in a hamper; ages 8 to 10 can add vacuuming, making simple snacks, and putting away laundry; and ages 11 to 12 can unload the dishwasher, fold laundry, and cook a simple meal with adult supervision.

Every child’s coordination, temperament, and afternoon schedule differ. Treat age bands as a menu of ideas rather than a rigid checklist, and introduce just one new responsibility at a time.

1. Chores by age group.

The table below organizes the household tasks listed by the AAP for ages 5 to 12 into personal space jobs and shared family jobs. Younger children in each band still benefit from a quick demonstration and an adult nearby, especially in the kitchen.

Household chores for ages 5–12, organized from American Academy of Pediatrics guidance
Age band & area Examples the AAP lists Good starter habit Supervision & safety notes
5–7: Bedroom & laundry Make bed, put toys away, tidy bookshelves, put dirty clothes in hamper, sort laundry by color Dirty clothes straight into hamper Keep hampers and low shelves easy to reach
5–7: Kitchen, pets & yard Set and clear table, help pack lunches, wash plastic dishes, fill pet food dish, empty small wastebaskets, water plants, bring in mail, sweep, dust, rake leaves Set forks and napkins before dinner Stick to unbreakable dishes; wash hands after pet food
8–10: Kitchen & groceries Make own simple snacks, help make dinner, put away groceries, plus earlier table jobs Unpack non-breakable pantry bags Keep adult nearby for any stove or knife steps
8–10: Floors, laundry & pets Vacuum rugs, put away own folded laundry, walk a family pet in safe familiar spots Put folded shirts into drawers Check leash readiness and traffic safety for pet walks
11–12: Kitchen & bath upkeep Unload dishwasher, clean kitchen counters and bathroom sinks, change own bedsheets, wash the car Empty dishwasher after school Hand sharp knives to an adult; follow cleaner labels and never mix cleaners
11–12: Meals, laundry & care Do and fold laundry, cook a simple meal with supervision, watch younger siblings with an adult home Run and fold one weekly towel load Keep an adult at home for cooking heat and sibling care

2. Start with one job and show how it works.

When a family decides to share more of the housework, the biggest trap is announcing six new rules on Monday night. Pick one everyday task that takes under five minutes—such as clearing plates to the counter or feeding the cat—and walk through it three times together: first do it while your child watches, next do it side by side, and then let your child run it while you stay in the room.

Resist redoing a crooked bedspread or rearranged sock drawer behind their back. As long as the job is safe and reasonably complete, letting their version stand keeps them willing to try again tomorrow.

3. Do it at the same time each day.

Jobs stick fastest when they attach to an existing daily event rather than floating until bedtime: setting forks right when the oven timer beeps, emptying lunchboxes at the front-door bag drop, or putting laundry away right after Saturday breakfast. Our guide to an after-school routine for kids shows how a ten-minute job fits cleanly between snack and free play.

4. Put it on a short visible chart.

Writing agreed jobs on paper spares everyone from constant nagging. You can include one daily chore inside a family routine chart, or set up a dedicated printable chore chart for kids that spells out what “done” means for each task in plain words.

5. Praise effort and review weekly.

Thank your child specifically when a job happens without a reminder, and hold a two-minute weekly check-in to rotate shared tasks so one sibling is not stuck emptying trash cans forever. Some families keep everyday chores separate from money and offer optional paid odd jobs, while others connect allowance or stickers to a finished list; the AAP describes both approaches as reasonable family options.

Once kids move into ages 13 to 17, handing over complete start-to-finish ownership works better than single micro-steps; see our guide to chores for teens that feel fair.

Start the chart today

Choose one starter job together, open our pre-filled after-school chore routine sheet, and post it on the fridge where everyone can check it off.

Questions parents ask

At what age should kids start doing household chores?

The AAP notes that most preschool-age children can begin pitching in with simple tasks like picking up toys, and its age-grouped chore suggestions cover steady daily responsibilities from ages 5 to 7 upward.

What are realistic daily chores for a 6- or 7-year-old?

Good five-minute daily starters for ages 6 and 7 include putting dirty clothes in the hamper, setting spoons and napkins on the table, filling a pet’s water bowl, and clearing lunchboxes onto the kitchen counter.

What chores can a 10- or 11-year-old handle independently?

Many 10- to 12-year-olds can vacuum a rug, put away folded clothes, change bedsheets, empty the dishwasher (leaving sharp knives for an adult), and help prepare simple meals while an adult is home.

Should I pay my elementary child an allowance for chores?

That is up to each household. Many families treat everyday shared cleanup as part of living together and use praise or optional extra jobs for allowance; the AAP notes stickers or small allowances tied to chores as one option if it fits your family.

One clear job, anchored to the same daily cue, beats a twenty-item chart nobody finishes.

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